Trust can crack when sex and agreements are involved: an affair, secrecy, porn use that crossed a line, a boundary ignored, or an ENM/poly agreement that got bent until it snapped. Whatever your relationship style, betrayal changes how you hear each other and how safe your body feels. Now talks turn into interrogation or shutdown. One of you pushes for answers and closeness; the other withdraws to cope, which lands as cold/checked out. You need clarity, accountability, and a plan that doesn't become endless processing. Goal: rebuild trust and a sex life that feels safe again, or make an honest decision about what's next, together. I specialize in sex therapy and non-monogamy focused couples work, including ENM and poly relationships. My style is directive: I slow you down, name the pattern, and keep you on track. Using ACT, EFT, and the Gottman Method, that means practical communication tools, sexual boundary work, and structured repair that fits your agreements. If you're feeling stuck, you're not broken, you're in a high-stakes dynamic without a map. Sexual betrayal can bring shame, resentment, and a constant sense you're missing something, and it's brutal alone. If you want a therapist who can talk about sex directly, challenge you with care, and help you get clarity, reach out to see if we're a fit.
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