I'm Arielle, a queer relationship therapist who helps individuals and couples navigate the quiet, complex moments that shape connection over time. My work centers on strengthening relational security during identity shifts—whether that’s changes in sexuality or relationship orientations, later in life neurodivergence diagnoses, or evolving life roles. I specialize in working with emotional disconnection that shows up without obvious conflict: the subtle relational drift, the growing distance that’s hard to name, and the feeling of longing for your partner instead of a roommate. Together, we slow down these patterns, make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface, and create space for turning-point conversations that bring clarity, honesty, and renewed closeness. Our work is about protecting the relationship while allowing all partners to grow and change. My approach is thoughtful, steady, and insight-driven. I help you understand the attachment dynamics shaping your relationships, communicate with depth rather than defensiveness, and rebuild connection in ways that feel secure, reciprocal, and sustainable.