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Ashleigh Lamberti

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Ashleigh Lamberti Psychotherapist
In-person In-person
Telehealth Telehealth
Specializes in: Relationship Issues, Couples Counseling, Marital and Premarital

Introduction

Relationships can feel exhausting when you’re stuck in the same arguments—criticism and defensiveness, pursuit and withdrawal, people-pleasing and shutdown. The problem isn’t that you’re “too much” or “not enough.” It’s that most of us were never taught the skills of repair, emotional safety, and clear communication—especially under stress. In therapy, we’ll get honest about what’s happening, identify the pattern that keeps hijacking your connection, and practice new ways of relating that actually stick. You can expect a warm, grounded approach that’s also direct and practical—so you leave sessions with clarity and real tools. I integrate Relational Life Therapy (RLT) with a trauma and attachment-focused lens. With a background in Spiritual Psychology and Addiction Counseling, I understand the complex dynamics that can impact relationships and draw from evidence-based modalities to address both emotional and practical aspects of relationships. In sessions, we don’t just review what went wrong. We work with what’s happening in real time — the tone, the shutdown, the “story,” the trigger — and we practice new moves in session. If you’re ready to stop rehearsing the same fight and start building a different experience of connection, please reach out to me.

GENDER Female
PRONOUNS She/Her/Hers
RACE & ETHNICITY White

Highlights

  • Offers free consultation
  • In-person & telehealth appointments
  • Accepts online payments

Licenses

  • LMFT #99816 (CA)

Specialties


Treatment Approaches


Population focus

Appointment types

  • Individuals
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Groups

Communities

  • Feminism
  • Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual
  • Open Relationships/Polyamory
  • People with Disabilities

Age groups

  • Young Adults (18-24)
  • Adults (24+)
  • Elders (65+)

Languages

  • English

Faiths

  • Agnostic
  • Atheist
  • Catholic
  • Christian
  • Hindu
  • Islam
  • Jewish

Payment options Free intro call available

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Pay out-of-pocket

Ashleigh Lamberti has not provided out-of-pocket fees. Get in contact for more information.

Locations

Carpinteria
Carpinteria, CA 93013
Video Office

Professional Information

Education

  • Master's Degree, Counseling Psychology - Pacific Graduate University
  • Master's Degree, Spiritual Psychology - University of Santa Monica

Certifications

  • Relational Life Certification

Professional Affiliations

  • CAMFT

FAQ

Is Ashleigh Lamberti accepting new clients and do they offer online appointment requests? Ashleigh Lamberti is not currently accepting new clients.
Does Ashleigh Lamberti offer telehealth appointments? Ashleigh Lamberti does offer telehealth appointments.
What areas does Ashleigh Lamberti specialize in? Ashleigh Lamberti specializes in the following areas: Couples Counseling, Marital and Premarital, and Relationship Issues.
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