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Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT

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Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Cultivating Capacity
Available this month
Specialties: Women's Issues, Trauma, LGBTQIA+, Kink/Diverse Sexualities, Sexual Abuse,

Introduction

At Cultivating Capacity, I offer therapy grounded in transparency, collaboration, and deep respect for your lived experiences. This is a space where your full story—your identity, creativity, relationships, body, and voice—is welcomed and deeply honored. My intentionally curated small caseload ensures that every client receives deep, attuned care, allowing for relational depth, continuous consent, and genuine partnership, centering you as the expert in your healing. With advanced training in neuroscience, trauma, sexual violence, relational therapy, and systems theory, I integrate narrative and somatic approaches with accessible education—helping you understand how your nervous system and relationships shape your day-to-day life. Particularly resonant for women, survivors, and those who've felt unseen or misunderstood in past therapy experiences, my practice provides a grounded, nurturing path forward. This is not therapy as usual. This is therapy that respects your depth, invites your truth, and invests in your transformation. Together, we'll untangle old narratives, restore boundaries, and cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and others. Our work is not about fixing who you are—it's about remembering what's always been true beneath the noise. At Cultivating Capacity, you'll find grounded presence, discerning insight, and emotionally intelligent care—always leading with depth over drama. You are not broken. You are ready. And you don't have to do this alone.

GENDER Female
PRONOUNS She/Her/Hers
RACE & ETHNICITY Biracial/Multiracial

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Highlights

  • Accepting new clients
  • Available on nights
  • Offers free consultation
  • Telehealth appointments
  • Accepts online payments

Licenses

  • LMFT #LF60497597 (WA) We've used a trusted third-party service to verify this practitioner's license.
  • LMFT #LMFT0717002067 (VA) We've used a trusted third-party service to verify this practitioner's license.
  • LMFT #LMFT81227 (CA) We've used a trusted third-party service to verify this practitioner's license.
  • LMFT #LMFT200001325 (DC) We've used a trusted third-party service to verify this practitioner's license.
  • LMFT #127765 (IA)
  • LMFT #MF001706 (PA)
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Specialties

Additional focus areas

Treatment Approaches

Population focus

Appointment types

  • Individuals
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Groups
  • Classes

Communities

  • Military/Veterans
  • Kink/Diverse Sexualities
  • Open Relationships/Polyamory
  • Women

Age groups

  • Teenagers (12-18)
  • Young Adults (18-24)
  • Adults (24+)
  • Elders (65+)

Languages

  • English

Faiths

  • Atheist
  • Agnostic
  • Interfaith
  • Jewish
  • Multi-Faith
  • Pagan

Payment options Free intro call available

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Pay out-of-pocket

  • FREE Initial Consultation $0
  • Clinical Diagnostic Assessment $250
  • Individual or Couple/Cule $150
  • Family Therapy $250
  • Open Path Psychotherapy Collective Members $50 - $80

Locations

Virtual Office

Frequently asked questions

Is Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT accepting new clients and do they offer online appointment requests? Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT is currently accepting new clients and can be booked on the Therapy Finder website. Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT also offers a free consultation.
Does Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT offer telehealth appointments? Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT does offer telehealth appointments. You can request to book a telehealth appointment with them on their Therapy Finder profile.
What areas does Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT specialize in? Kourtney DeBoer, LMFT specializes in the following areas: Abortion Issues, Abuse Survivors, LGBTQIA+, PTSD, Sexual Abuse, Transgender Issues, Trauma, Women's Health, Women's Issues, and Kink/Diverse Sexualities.
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