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Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd

Clinical Psychologist Selden Psych
Available this week
Specialties: Autism Spectrum Disorder, ADD/ADHD, Giftedness / 2e, Transgender Issues, LGBTQIA+,
Insurance: Highmark, BlueCross and BlueShield, Aetna, Out of Pocket

Introduction

Hi, I'm Shay! (They/He). I’m a licensed clinical psychologist who provides neuroaffirming, culturally conscious assessment and psychotherapy services that help reframe unhelpful narratives. My approach is shaped by my own lived experience, as well as my specialized training and clinical work with marginalized and stigmatized communities. I came to this field from many points of lived experience, having always felt a bit "too complicated" for the neat boxes the world tried to fit me into. Reflecting my love of precise language, I identify as a mixed-race, Black, AuDHD/neuroqueer, non-binary, transmasc human. These words have, and will likely continue to, change over time, but I’ve always been this person in one way or another. My experiences have shown me that not everyone will "get it," but my journey to finding these words showed me that some people will. That kind of authentic connection to self and others is what drives my passion for working with folks on their own journeys of self-discovery and community connection. I earned a doctorate in clinical psychology as well as a master’s in human sexuality from Widener University in 2017. I have specialized training in working with complex trauma and attachment, multicultural issues, sexuality and gender, & neurodivergence, such as Autism, ADHD, PDA profiles, and giftedness/twice-exceptionality (2e).

GENDER Non-Binary
PRONOUNS They/Them/Theirs, He/Him/His
RACE & ETHNICITY Biracial/Multiracial, Black/African American, White

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Highlights

  • Accepting new clients
  • Available on nights
  • Offers free consultation
  • Telehealth appointments
  • Accepts online payments and insurance

Licenses

  • Psy. D. #PS018572 (PA)
  • Psy. D. #25613 (NY)

Specialties

Additional focus areas

Treatment Approaches

Population focus

Appointment types

  • Individuals
  • Coaching

Communities

  • Trans & Non-Binary
  • LGBTQIA+
  • Racial Justice/Equity
  • Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual

Age groups

  • Young Adults (18-24)
  • Adults (24+)

Languages

  • English

Faiths

  • Agnostic
  • Atheist
  • Pagan
  • Islam
  • Christian
  • Buddhist

Payment options Free intro call available

Pay with insurance

Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd accepts these insurance providers. What you pay depends on your plan.
  • Highmark
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Aetna
  • Out of Pocket

Pay out-of-pocket

  • Individual Psychotherapy $200 - $250
  • Letters of Support for Gender Affirming Care $0 - $250
  • Psychological Assessment $900 - $2700

Locations

In-Office
Philadelphia, PA 19110-1024
Teletherapy Office

Frequently asked questions

Is Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd accepting new clients and do they offer online appointment requests? Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd is currently accepting new clients and can be booked on the Therapy Finder website. Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd also offers a free consultation.
Does Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd offer telehealth appointments? Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd does offer telehealth appointments. You can request to book a telehealth appointment with them on their Therapy Finder profile.
What areas does Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd specialize in? Shay Selden, PsyD, MEd specializes in the following areas: ADD/ADHD, Asexuality, Attachment Issues, Autism Spectrum Disorder, College Mental Health, Existential Crisis, Gender Identity, LGBTQIA+, Multicultural Concerns, Open Relationships/Polyamory, Racial Identity, Relationship Issues, Substance Use, Transgender Issues, Cultural and Systemic Oppression, and Kink/Diverse Sexualities.
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