Shelby Spake

Behavioral health therapy The Center for Couples & Sex Therapy
Telehealth Telehealth
Specializes in: Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Sex Therapy, Couples Counseling,

Introduction

My goal with my clients is to help them look at themselves, their life experiences, and their desires with more compassion and confidence. I want to provide a safety net in therapy, free from judgment and shame, so that my clients feel safe to explore their relational and erotic desires, practice articulating their needs and boundaries in relationships, and touch on any shadowy parts that need attention and grace. Regardless of one’s intersecting identities, past traumas, sexual desires, or desired relationship structure, I believe we all deserve a life of connection, honesty, respect, and agency. Some of my therapeutic modalities and areas of treatment focus are emotion focused therapist (EFT), sex therapy, narrative therapy, and mindful self-compassion (MSC).

GENDER Female
PRONOUNS She/Her/Hers
RACE & ETHNICITY White

Highlights

  • Telehealth appointments
  • Accepts online payments

Licenses

  • Marriage & Family Therapist Associate #R8479 (OR)
  • Marriage & Family Therapist Associate #MG61570010 (WA)

Specialties

Additional focus areas

Treatment Approaches

Population focus

Appointment types

  • Individuals
  • Couples

Communities

  • People with Disabilities
  • Racial Justice/Equity
  • Lesbian, Gay, & Bisexual
  • Trans & Non-Binary

Age groups

  • Young Adults (18-24)
  • Adults (24+)
  • Elders (65+)

Languages

  • English

Payment options

Pay with insurance

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Pay out-of-pocket

Shelby Spake has not provided out-of-pocket fees. Get in contact for more information.

Locations

Video Office

FAQ

Is Shelby Spake accepting new clients and do they offer online appointment requests? Shelby Spake is not currently accepting new clients.
Does Shelby Spake offer telehealth appointments? Shelby Spake does offer telehealth appointments.
What areas does Shelby Spake specialize in? Shelby Spake specializes in the following areas: Anxiety, Couples Counseling, Depression, Sex Therapy, Trauma, and Kink/Diverse Sexualities.
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